Quick pics and stories from recent running events. Not overly thrilling. Just life.
On Monday morning the kids and I all converged downstairs, sleepy and puffy, laughing because we were all dressed exactly the same. We knew it was happening, but when we saw it in action we giggled. I love these people and love that they run with me. Jude and I proudly wore our medals while Gigi left hers at home and just wore the sweatshirt. We are getting to be quite the threesome. 🙂
Gigi and I have fallen in love with running on the Burke-Gilman trail lately. It is flat, wide and goes on forever through interesting terrain. This day, Sunday, we noticed the river was ridiculously high and flowing fast. The porches of the houses near the river were getting pretty close to splash level. I wondered how much they worry about floating away; how often worry has been valid. We ended up going a mile and a half further than we intended, but we were pretty okay with that.
These people passed by me and, I swear I’m such an old person now, I remarked at how pleasant smelling they were. Because seriously- runners who pass me rarely waft flowers and perfume. The guy fell back and paced with me for a bit and we learned that we were all training for the Hot Chocolate 15k and he was training for a marathon in Kansas. Mostly I loved that being elderly, apparently, allows me to butt into people’s lives and I met some cool people! I’m totally looking out for them at the race. I doubt I’ll see them, but it’s nice knowing they’re in the crowd. It’s nice to know I pass as a runner.
Saw a bunch of these fellows. They made me hopeful that the groundhog was wrong. Spring was ripe on Saturday. Ducks were doing their dance, squirrels were all over the trail, robins were pulling worms- the world seemed alive and fresh. I’m happy to see our Canadian Geese friends. I know they’re poop machines, but they remind me of where I grew up and twice a year when the acreage behind our house would be covered, beak to tailfeathers, with hundreds of geese honking. Welcome back, friends. Hello spring!
Today’s run wasn’t as wonderful. We were a bit tired. The weather wasn’t as pretty and we had a different start point. We were planning to run eight but headed back at three, six was fine with the both of us. Next week we will get our eight. Today it felt like dog years just to get this far. And ‘just’ six? Hello?? That’s decent mileage. Where is my perspective presently??
While running today Gigi looked over at me and saw my age; my grey temple hairs sparkled just right in the sunlight and caught her off guard.
“Mommy. When did you start getting grey hairs?!”
I’ve had them for several years, but I remembered that moment, too. When I saw my own mother’s mortality evidenced in the salt and pepper that was showing more and more in her honey, brown hair. Gigi started getting teary so I told her that it’s been almost two years since I’ve gotten my hair colored. The silvers are more evident than usual. She told me to get it taken care of. That she doesn’t like the message those silvery harbingers are forcing upon us.
And I had to tell her the strange truth of getting older and how it seems impossible to live away from your parents, but that time and life chip away at that powerful link until it almost seems like you could stand on your own two feet if you had to. You never wish for it, I don’t think you’re ever ready for it, but you know you could. If you had to.
And that’s when you know you’re a real grown up.
She got teary again and asked more about what would happen if I died. Who she’d stay with if both of us died? What should she do if one of us wanted to remarry and they hated the newbie? So we had that weird conversation until she said she was done, but is glad to know about all of this horrible stuff. I changed the subject and asked her about her wedding. I’ve never asked her and I found out she wants a gigantic, princess, pouffy skirt. Her bridesmaids will wear yellow and she’ll wear her veiled tiara as she walks the aisle to a Taylor Swift song. So simple, sweet and cute when the groom is nowhere near figured out.
The things you talk about on the run with the daughter. Treasures.